Showing posts with label Psychology. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Psychology. Show all posts

Tuesday, May 4, 2010

GOD, Do You Have An Answer to My Question?

Why Punishment


A lady in her eighties whom I know well, is struggling hard to clear if off the fence to what I assume, rather convinced, would be much better than what she's been going through right now: Death.





She's completely bid-ridden with hardly any physical movement that she's capable of executing, but her mind is active -- and very much.


She had struggled through-out her life to ensure the best possible education for her sons and married her daughter off to a successful person. Yes, she made their future.


But, in that process, all her children moved away to far off places for a better career and she was left alone with her much older husband.


Today, she's lying helpless in her bed at the mercy of a few medical attendants, and her husband - who's close to ninety but still somewhat active - is coordinating with the Doctors to keep her alive --  fighting a loosing battle, though.


Neither her children can stay indefinitely with her nor they can shift her to their place - a hopeless situation!


Incidentally, I know another lady, who, intentionally or not I don't know but never walked an extra-mile to ensure what the first lady did, and all her sons remained there with her taking up mediocre jobs despite being intelligent enough to build-up a much better career.


And being with all her sons and other family members, she's looked after well -- living a much better life than the first lady.


Being a strong believer of the hypothesis that 'we get what we give,' I'm confused, utterly, because the developments here happen to be just the opposite: She, who did the best, is receiving the worst -- and she, who did nothing, is being rewarded the best.


If there exists a divine power - God or whatever term we may use - may I ask him or her a very simple question: Why do you punish a person who truly deserves a reward?

For the image, thanks to Denis Collette...!!!'s