How to 'Stand Out' in the Crowd of Relationship Network!

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Instinctively, all species, including humans, longe for getting noticed by others through a better performance in the specific areas of interest.

Call it achievement or success, the fights are always on to move ahead of others up the ladder of social hierarchy in terms of recognition by the masses and subsequent acceptance as better than the rest.

Destiny's Torture: The Lost World of Happiness!

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Having gone through an amazingly successful period of life for little less than a decade, and then embracing an equally devastating period of failure for more than 3 years by now, I think, that, I have realized what can make humans happy in life.

I'm a common man with an average intelligence level, hence, I may be wrong while saying: Happiness is derived out of a feeling of nothingness, when you have no assets or liabilities to manage but your own spiritual self!

Master the Art of Recognition!

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While talking to their sons over telephone, they would never fail to get all family members on line and inquire about their well-being. That would include, one of their grandchildren who was just 3 years old at that time.

Well, I'm highlighting an astonishing attitude of an elderly couple whom I had observed a few times -- talking to their near and dear ones.

Smart-Work: How to be A Little More Happy!

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I don't know a single person who hasn't asked himself, at some point in time, about not getting enough return against his hard-work: Job, business or even in relationships, we feel that we are putting in our best effort to make it work, but the corresponding returns, in our opinion, are always much lower than our expectations.

Why it happens? Obviously, something goes wrong that we have no clue about. The mismatch between our effort and corresponding return is perhaps the main cause of unhappiness in every field of life. Can we do something to reduce the gap between the two? Yes we can, and by taking the following steps:

Why You Must Live in the Moment

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The world is ruthless! It neither remember your past achievements, nor go by future predictions. For the world, you're, what you stand today. If your past achievements don't carry forward any tangible benefits, you're conveniently forgotten and ignored as intangible liability.

If you're a crest-fallen professional, you're completely forgotten as if you had never existed. If you're hugely successful today, the world don't remember what your past was. You're always assessed on the basis of your current standing in social hierarchy.

Likings Never Die!

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When you start liking someone, do you ever try to find out the reason behind: Why you like that person? No, you don't. Because, liking is the manifestation of a unique shade of your emotional existence and it doesn't follow a definite criteria.

Well, over a period of time, through mutual interactions, you may find that person to be quite different than what you initially thought about. Still, in all probability, you continue with your liking, because, frankly speaking, you don't know why you do so.

The degree of liking or emotional attachment that you develop with that person is mostly determined by your initial assessment of his/her personality and, in most of the cases, it doesn't undergo any major change even if things go wrong in course of time.

Be Open in Every Life Transaction

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'If you have a good intention, sooner or later you'd become successful in life.' Said one of my creditors, whose money I returned a month after the due date but, during that period, never failed to return his call whenever he gave me a tinkle.

The fact that I didn't avoid him, even though I was unable to honor my commitment, was what inspired him to make this statement. My frank admission of the inability to stick to my words, for some compelling reasons though, happened to impress him a bit.

Never Ignore Your Ground Level Connections

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Yesterday I received a call from a professional, whom I had successfully placed as CEO with one of our clients a couple of years ago. He said, due to some organizational conflicts, he had to resign from the current assignment and now he is desperately looking for a suitable opportunity.

"No issue, it's my job and I would try my best to identify a good opening for you."I said.

Financial Success: Why You Must Switch On Life's Combat Mode

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Sometime, in life, you may find yourself in a devastatingly helpless situation. Most of them would be relationship conflicts, and a few -- financial.

For them who have never faced the consequences of not having enough money to make both the ends meet, nothing would appear to be more stressful than a relationship fall out.

However, for a few, who are struggling hard to clear mounting debts off and also ensure meeting the basic needs for self and dependents -- money stands out as the most important element of life.

A Few Unconventional Abilities to Make you Successful

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Who doesn't want to be successful in life: Be it money, or fame, or both? But, everybody wants to play it safe, keeping ego scratch-less.

Hey, that's not possible. Sooner you realize, better it is for your own benefit.

Like all of you, I too had my ups and downs and still experiencing the impact of tidal waves that sometime take us to a treasure a island or off-load to a demon's den.

Taking A Step Backward, Doesn't Mean Defeat!

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Very few situations are close to being ideal in this World; rests are thousand miles apart from what one can conveniently call normal.

Why otherwise, Worldwide, thousands of murders are being committed; thousands of divorces are being executed and thousands of fatal accidents are witnessed?

Are You Too Big Now, for An Old Pal?

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Well, recent financial collapse has bust the myth that an organization could be too big to fail.

Can we apply the same philosophy to an individual also?

I think we can, and for the following reasons:

Do We Make More Friends on Facebook, than in Real Life

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Recently one of my facebook friends posted a question:

Why is it so easy to make a "friend" on facebook and so difficult to make one in real life? Has facebook changed the definition of friend?

And, most of the participants voted in favor.

Attitude: Make It Happen in Life!

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Who doesn't like or enjoy success? If you don't, go to a psychiatrist please.

But, the issue here is: Nothing comes fee of cost in this world -- including success.

Will God Embrace Me?

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Infamously known as an atheist, I have never visited any temples with an intention to ask for some favor from the Almighty.

Chal Ekela, Chal Ekela, Tera Mela Piche Jhoota Rahi Chal Ekela

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Everything that you read and learn about relationship is a bullshit when you have only one option: Survive out of a violent domestic life, because the life of your own children is at stake.

If you behave normally, it wouldn't lead to a normal conclusion; if you behave abnormally, that would completely spoil the atmosphere at home. Then, what do you do?

How to Extract the Best, out of the Worst

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An Interesting article, highlighting a real life example, explains: How, fostering a positive belief system can help us extracting the best results out of the worst life developments.

"Your beliefs are causing you to assign meaning to events that are happening. If you hold a set of empowering beliefs, you will probably assign empowering meaning to the events of your life."

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War over Failures may Begin at Any Age

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If, while looking back into your past during an intense introspection, what you notice is a dark cloud of failures -- there would be a natural compulsion to accept and give up, because you know you can't change your past.

Unfortunately you can't change your past but, can't you change our present for shaping up a better future?

Yes, you can, but the task is mammoth and requires a continuous flow of sustainable determination and hard-work being directed at repairing the evil consequences of wasted time.

Never Surrender to A Haunting Past

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Nothing is more dangerous, in life, than a haunting image of self that you lived decades ago: Good, or bad!

Believe me, even a successful past could also be equally haunting if your current state of affairs is not so comparable.

Let me tell you, why I think so:

I Won't Give Up!

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Very soon, I shall complete 2 years of blogging. But, looking back, I fail to see any accomplishments, except, may be, learning - to some extent - the art of writing sort of what you may call articles.