Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Preview: Life And Thoughts of A Warrior -- The Path of Fire!

Read the Preview of my latest E-book, which has been published on Amazon Kindle store, and click on the following link to buy and download it from Amazon website: Life And Thoughts of A Warrior.



Life And Thoughts of A Warrior

Every time, the black clouds of pains gathered across my mind, I would write an article, flushing the agonies out of my system and breathing in fresh air of hopes for a better future, inspiring self for keeping the fights on.

Those notes, written over a period of 3 years - those 3 years of unbelievable fight against destiny's torture - highlight my helplessness and also the determination. Hundreds of them, truly reflecting, what I had gone through, are now being edited to come out as a book.

If my story of pains, agonies and the determination to refuse giving up can save even a single soul from succumbing to life's struggle, I would be the happiest person on planet earth.

 

Content

01. Spontaneous Thoughts

02. Navigating through the Worst of Life

03. Justice is Inevitable

04. A Tale of Two Boys

05. Can We Live Our True Self?

06. Likings Never Die!

07. Never be A Terminator, Be A Connector Instead

08. Why Not, Become Your Own Boss?

09. Body Language Interpretation: Key to Success!

10. Take Your Life into Your Own Hands

11. To Be Happy, Behave Like Sports Person

12. A Good Student May Not Become A Good Teacher!

13. Career or Your Child's Future?

14. The Excitement of being Human, Lost Forever!

15. Destiny's Greatest Blessing: Living for Others

16. Is, Falling in Love A Crime?

17. Install Antivirus App and Firewall in Your Life

18. I Failed Once, I’ll be Successful Now

19. Differentiate between Inflated Ego and Pride!

20. Inspiration from the Failures

21. Why Talented People Fail to Achieve Success

22. Quitting is not Giving Up

23. There Must be A Cut-off Point for Your Efforts

24. Every Human's Life is A Personal Website

25. How Do I Overrule My Belief System?

26. Have You Seen Anyone Rising from the Ashes?

27. 13 Essential Qualities of Successful Personality

28. Never Reject Incoming Calls on Mobile Phone

29. Why You Must Fail to Quit!

30. Is She A Failure?

31. If There is Another Life, Let Me be Her Son, Again!

32. You, Not Destiny, Decide Your Future

33. Reject Fading into Oblivion

34. The Tale of An Unfortunate Child

35. Learn to Accept, You May be Wrong, Sometime!

36. Be A Great Warrior to Win Over Destiny's Blow

37. Grow beyond Conventional Success

38. Never Let Your Hope Die A Premature Death

39. Inspire Happiness Come Running After    You!

40. The Story of Relationship Fallout.

 

Spontaneous Thoughts

1. When you tame your destiny down, you're the winner; when you surrender to it, you're the loser; but when you accept and live your life for the sake of others, you're neither a winner nor a loser but true manifestation of God!

2. Think big, and work hard to accomplish the goals; celebrate both success and failure, until hitting the pole; accept defeat, as long as you can sustain it; there after, go all out to force your destiny digest it.

3. When we do it wrong, we don't admit; when we do it right, few appreciate; when we project it wrong, we fail to accept; when we place it right, many recognize; do it right, and place it right too; watch the world, come running after you.

4. Leadership, in personal and professional life, is more about forgetting one's own ego and caring for that of others; leadership is all about melting the ice between relationship transactions, never about spraying more in between; leadership is only about maintaining long term relationship, irrespective of the outcome; leadership is nothing, but truly living the virtue of humility.

5. Nothing gives you more pleasure, than that of achieving a victory; nothing gives you more pains, than that of succumbing to a defeat; the day you stop thinking about victory, and defeat; you'd achieve the ultimate, independent of both.

6. Working hard while on the right track, makes you hugely successful; working soft without a track, can still make your life eventful; hard or soft, you must keep working to make it happen; forgetting your own ambition and aspiration, while focusing more on genuine intention.

7. Mediocrity is a luxury that most of us can afford; celebrity is the status that very few dare achieve.

8. The day you master the art of being at peace with self, even while negotiating through the worst, you stand out as a great warrior! And a great warrior, despite facing initial setbacks, is always a winner in the marathon race of life.

9. Superiority complex is the key to self-destruction; inferiority complex is the key to mass- destruction; a perfect balancing, almost impossible to achieve though, leads to permanent construction.

10. Unless life sucks it out of us, we never live a truly meaningful life. Positive people draw inspiration out of others' pains and agonies, and the negatives sulk!

11. Never, in view of repeated failures, let your hope on making it happen in life die a premature death. Let every failure fuel the fire of your hope instead of throwing water onto it, and let the fire get stronger and stronger until you hit the bull's eye.

  

Navigating through the Worst of Life

A little over 3 years by now, I have been going through the worst phase of my life: Emotional and financial.

But things are changing now. At least there are some good signs visible in the distant horizon. Years of struggle against unrelenting pressure from destiny, forcing me to surrender and quit this world, appears to be coming to an end. Having decided not to quit as a failure, I perhaps turned myself into an abnormal person.

Why abnormal? Because my Struggle had been more about keeping my self-esteem intact, when there was not even a remote possibility of achieving so.

With every source of money dried up, I, against my wishes, to remain alive, had to borrow money from more than a dozen friends and relatives. Did I do it happily? Not at all!

Every time I approached someone, asking for money, I had to gather tremendous courage; in a way, I had to swallow my self-respect.

Because, for more than a decade, I have been living a successful life and instead of asking for financial help I had rather been offering the same to others.

The pains of asking for financial help from so many people had been killing me incrementally. But there was no option, because survival was at stake: not just mine, but my family members as well.

I still vividly remember: having gone through these ordeals a few times, once I almost gave up. But, just before surrendering to destiny's might, I could convince myself that I don't deserve to be remembered as a failure.

Every time the black clouds of pains gathered across my mind, I would write an article, flushing the agonies out of my system and breathing in fresh air of hopes for a better future -- inspiring self for keeping the fight on.

Those notes, written over a period of 3 years - those 3 years of unbelievable fight against destiny's torture - highlight my helplessness and also the determination. Hundreds of them, truly reflecting, what I had gone through, are now being edited to come out as a series of E-books.

If my story of pains, agonies and the determination to refuse giving up can save even a single soul from succumbing to life's struggle, I would be the happiest person on planet earth.

Justice is Inevitable

All of us, at some point in time, invariably suffer from a series of blows from life's cruelty, may be in different ways.

And, we never admit those painful memories with others because we are afraid of being ridiculed as weak character.

The realization that you are not an achiever; the sight of happiness that you failed to cherish, the life that you've failed to live, and the possibility of you being termed a complete failure in life -- is extremely painful for someone who least deserves it. And, your inability to express those pains and agonies makes it even worse.

In extreme case, adding salt to the wound, watching silently, that the happiness that you've willingly given up for the betterment of others, the joy that you've sacrificed for making others' life meaningful, going waste, inflict more pains on your almost shattered frame of mind.

Ultimately, what remains is the skeleton of a warrior, fighting a losing battle, who has donated the most precious period of his life for serving a purpose that didn't appear to have existed at all.

But somewhere, someone, keeping a note of this injustice, more than makes it up, showering a wonderful future to them who refuse to surrender to destiny's blow and keep working hard in the right direction!