Instinctively, all species, including humans, longe for getting noticed by others through a better performance in the specific areas of interest.
Call it achievement or success, the fights are always on to move ahead of others up the ladder of social hierarchy in terms of recognition by the masses and subsequent acceptance as better than the rest.
The race is tough, but the reward is huge. However, to qualify, one needs to work hard for improving a specific set of skills. The decisive ones, in my opinion, are very simple:
1. Keep smiling in all situations.
A victory or a defeat, you must keep smiling. A smile doesn't cost you a dime but the lack of it may cost you a fortune.
Smile represents positivity, and people are automatically attracted towards them who radiate the same in even the most difficult situation.
2. Talk less and listen more
The desire to share thoughts, ideas and opinions with others on any issue is ingrained in humans. Everyone wants to talk, but none is willing to listen.
In such a situation, if you are able lend a patient hearing ears to others, you would surely become more desirable than those who don't listen.
3. Help others to the best of your capacity.
Emotional, financial, professional, be it any need, always extend help to others to the best of your capacity.
Humans are built to reciprocate, and respect them who never fail to help others. Respect leads to developing trust and confidence, making you a dependable entity . And a dependable person is far more popular than the rest.
Listening to others' problems with a smiling face and offering help to the best of your capacity is what makes you stand out in the crowd of relationship network. It's all about genuine love and care that you shower to all within your area of influence.
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