Tuesday, January 10, 2012

Why We Do, What We Don't Intend to?

Love unconditionally; don't run after money; be your true self; never hurt others' feeling... on various social media sites, people keep talking about the necessity of embracing these wisdom in real life. And, I too, do the same.

However, in real life, we refuse to love our wife unconditionally, always expecting them to reciprocate equally to our feelings and needs. When they don't, anger and frustrations win over caring and loving.

Despite knowing and talking that money can't make us happy, we keep looking for better jobs that would bring us more and more money or focus on expanding the business to earn more.

All attempts at being true self in our dealings with others, often bounce back with a landslide of misunderstanding. And then, we, pretending to be matured and practical, start projecting an image which is far from what we actually are.

In spite of being careful about not hurting others' feelings, we, at the slightest provocation, don't hesitate to invade into the mental personal space of our family members and friends, eventually hurting their feelings.

Why do we do, what we don't intend to? Why we live a life, that we never wish to?

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