Every time I meet him, for whatever reasons, he, after covering the meeting agenda, would eventually focus on highlighting some flaws in me that even I'm not aware of.
In fact, today, when I met him to discuss about a serious issue, he, far quicker than his earlier performances, came heavily down on me, saying that I would never be successful in life for the reasons.......
To tell you frankly, earlier, I used to get frustrated while listening to his parental advice, but later, I realized, that his point of view regarding my situations could be of a great source of improvements.
After all, there must be some elements of truth in whatever he points out, and, undoubtedly, if taken positively, on face value, those revelations could surely be an amazing source of information for making a huge improvement in my professional dealings.
Yes, psychologically, for a normal human, it's difficult to digest a negative assessment made by another human. Because, evolution governed self-defense mechanism comes into play.
However, if you are capable of looking beyond the normality of life, and are confident of extracting the creme out of milk, you would surely realize about the huge advantage of occasionally meeting a few negative persons in life -- who are hell bent on mercilessly dissecting your profile, and highlighting your weaknesses.
They do it, because they enjoy it; you must enjoy it, because they give you free of cost self-improvement consulting.
So, identify a few negative persons within your area of influence and keep meeting them regularly to know about your weaknesses. But, never forget to analyze their assessment about you. If you find, even a faintest element of truth in their assessment about you, never hesitate to install the most effective corrective mechanism in your life system.
Never, ever, forget, that in life, the best always emerge out from the worsts. Success, always, is the child of failure.
Remember, and always, that happiness, always, is the outcome of an unbearable struggle: What, the mother of a newly born child goes through!
You must Know, and digest the fact, where you've failed, before making it happen in life. And, to achieve this impossible task, you must have the courage to accept where you have gone wrong!
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